Monday, February 25, 2008

My little man turns two!

Born not from our flesh but born in our hearts, you were longed for and wanted and loved from the start, conceived from a blessing sent straight from above, our very own son at last home to love.



All babies are special from the start and my little Owen has an extra special place in my heart. After the birth of my first son Derek I came down with a very rare condition called PPCM. The doctors informed me it could be very dangerous to have another biological child. At the time being young & twenty-six, having a husband in law school, no real income, living away from family it was extremely scary, painful, and heart breaking at times. Thankfully, my heart has healed completely but it is still dangerous to have more children. However, it is true what they say that time is a great healer. I have also found that when we face what we feel to be the greatest trial or adversity, the Lord is always there to comfort us and provide a way that we never saw before. When Derek was about two we decided it was time to begin the adoption process. We knew long before then that this was going to be a wonderful opportunity & the right direction for us to go but the timing wasn't right until Derek was two (or so I thought). Two years after sumitting our paperwork we were still waiting and had many disappointing moments along the way. I decided to go back to work. I really couldn't take it anymore. I needed to preoccupy my mind & time with other things. Well, when you create one plan the lord always has something else in store for you. In November of that year I received an email that a baby boy was going to be born in California. Within days we were in contact with the birthmother and I was very nervous. As an adoptive parent you never know when they might change their mind. As the next couple of months progressed we had a feeling that this was it. Owen's birthmother was amazing and wonderful to us. She made the whole experience extremely precious. She called me almost every step of the way. She walked into the hospital and told everyone that this was Drew and Megan's baby and that we were on are way from Texas. We had some very tender moments in the hospital. I will forever be grateful to her.


Derek & Owen truly have been the greatest blessings and joys of my life. They alone have healed my broken heart.


This is when we were sealed as a family in the Salt Lake Temple.



Owen when he turned one!

The two year old Thomas the Train celebration!

We opened gifts and had breakfast in the morning and celebrated in the afternoon at Chucky Cheese. Owen loves all the rides and had a great time.




We came home and celebrated with a Thomas cake. Owen was a very happy two year old!

We sure do love our little O!

16 comments:

Wendi said...

Happy Birthday kiddo!

Michelle said...

Oh my goodness he is just so big. I can't believe he is two already. I remember when you first brought him home. Be sure to give him a hug and kiss from me!

btw love your new colors on your blog. CUTE!!

Julianne said...

What a sweet little guy! I can't believe he's 2! You have a wonderful story and it was so neat to read it. Looks like it was a great birthday bash!

Love the new blog look. So cute!

roamingjones said...

Happy Birthday to Owen! OUr little Jackson will be two in about a week, on the 7th.

GJJ

Jake said...

Happy Birthday! I love adoption stories...

Holly (2 Kids and Tired) said...

What a beautiful story. He's adorable. Happy Birthday Owen!

Katrina said...

What a beautiful tribute to the little man! I hope you save this post for him. I love birthdays!

Bryce & Charly said...

He is so lucky to have such an awesome family. He looks so grown up. Happy Birthday Owen!

Rochelleht said...

Oh, he is SOOO cute, Megan. I can't believe how fast time flies. I loved those pictures and your story. So sweet.

Lacie said...

What a sweet story. One of my dearest friends in the world was unable to have children. I was honored to have experienced the process of adoptions with her and her husband. However, thier little girl was born in Russia.

Happy Birthday Owen!

Julie said...

Great post, what fun to have a set of boys. I loved your Valentine's festivities as well.

Katie said...

It was so much fun to listen to your story at dinner last night. I know from experience how the lord can work in very unexpected ways, and at times we can be very impatient and frustrated, but ultimately, He knows what is best and has great plans for us. Thank you for always being open and sharing your story.

Laura said...

GOSH! MAKE ME CRY!! I love you guys! I miss little Owen and Derrek!! Great pictures!

Cecily R said...

Happy Birthday (late, sorry)! What an amazing story and a great family you have!

P.S. Owen and Isaac share a birthday!

Debbie said...

I just loved reading the story about Owen joining your family. Those sweet memories warm my heart and make me think of the miraculous ways our kids found their way to our family. Happy Birthday Owen. You are in a wonderful family! What a cute boy he is and it looks like you had fun.

Unknown said...

okay I was looking for that Easter book link and got a little nosey and read about your experience getting Owen. That is so touching, I even teared up a bit. We have struggled to get our two beautiful girls here and sometimes I wondered if its worth all the struggle to try and get more but I loved reading your story, and inspires me to remain hopefully and have faith. I have that exact book, A Christ Centered Easter! Two years ago I got it and was so disappointed when I tried one little activity and My barely three year seemed to get nothing out of it. She is five now and I think will get many of the activities so I think I'll try it out. Thanks for reminding me I have that book. The other book I was telling you about is called Three Days Without Light, A Nephite Easter Story. It's obviously fiction but a still a great story and Kinzy didn't used to get much from it either but now I know she will. So thanks again Megan!